My 13-Year-Old Daughter Spent Three Weeks at Her Dream Summer Camp—Then the Director Told Me She Wasn’t Welcome Back
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For months, my daughter had talked about one thing.
Summer camp.
Not just any summer camp, either. She had spent nearly an entire year dreaming about a particular program in the mountains, a place she had discovered online while searching for camps that offered hiking, kayaking, horseback riding, arts, and outdoor adventures.
She was thirteen, old enough to want independence but still young enough to believe that summer could be magical.
When she received confirmation that she had been accepted, she nearly screamed.
She spent weeks making lists of what to pack. She labeled her clothes. She chose her favorite hoodie for the evenings. She bought a small notebook because she wanted to write down everything that happened.
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Most importantly, she believed the camp would be the place where she finally felt completely comfortable being herself.
Three weeks later, I received a phone call from the camp director.
The words I heard made absolutely no sense.
“She won’t be returning for the remainder of the program.”
I remember sitting silently for several seconds.
“Why?”
There was a pause.
Then the director said something that made my stomach drop.
“We don’t believe this environment is the right fit for her.”